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The athlete’s sacrifices for greatness and what it means to the fan

January 13, 2012 Leave a comment

Some time ago when a player was great, he or she was beloved. Now they are questioned.

In the microscope today’s athlete lives under, a publicist’s job is a lot harder. It seems like corruption and scandal soiled sports at every level in recent years, but the phenomenon is nothing new.

Cam Newton will forever be remembered as one (if not THE) greatest college football players ever, and will always live under the dark cloud of the “pay for play” scandal he allegedly took part in at Auburn. Pete Carroll’s USC teams of the mid-2000’s were the closest thing to a dynasty college football has seen since Florida State and Nebraska in the 90’s, and will always be accompanied by the ugly asterisk of stripped national titles and awards after investigation of the program.

Tiger Woods was arguably on the fast track to ousting Michael Jordan as the greatest professional athlete of all time, before, well, you know the story. And the aforementioned Jordan? His arrogance and penchant for grudge-holding set me over the metaphoric edge today when I read Thomas Lake of Sports Illustrated’s profile of Clifton “Pop” Herring, Jordan’s high school coach who “cut” him, motivating Michael to become the greatest.

If you want to spare 12 pages of profile, the article brings to light the actual details of Jordan’s high school playing career. Jordan’s sophomore year, Coach Herring gave 6-foot-7-inch sophomore Leroy Smith the last spot on the varsity in order to give Laney High School the height they desperately needed in the middle. Jordan landed on the JV team for just one year.

If you’ve listened to Jordan speak about what drives him, you’ve heard about his high school coach that “cut” him, the coach that MJ set out “to prove wrong.” That’s Coach Herring.

That’s the same coach that welcomed Jordan into his home whenever he wanted, feeding him, lending him his truck. And placed him on varsity just one year later. The coach that helped him find his way to the University of North Carolina.


I’m a fan of Cam Newton. I watched USC in amazement when Pete Carroll (who I still believe is a magnificent coach) led the Trojans during their run last decade. I still maintain that Tiger Woods is the greatest golfer ever to walk the planet and will watch him walk Augusta until the day he can’t walk anymore or my eyes can’t see him do it. I’ll never forget watching Air Jordan sink the jumper against Utah in the finals as child, not even knowing why I loved him so much.

I’m a fan of theses athletes, not necessarily of these people. So what about their sacrifices?

If you like sports in any capacity, you know you don’t succeed without making sacrifices. The hours put in, the money spent, the heartache endured – but what else? What about socially? emotionally? Psychologically?

Larry Bird was great at the cost of his childhood. Bird didn’t have friends, so he played around the world by himself until he was perfect. When he was perfect, he played around the world by himself until every shot hit nothing but net.

Todd Marinovich, one time USC quarterback also sacrificed his entire childhood to become the quarterback he was as a Trojan. He succumbed to addiction of hard drugs for years after fizzling out of the NFL. Did he sacrifice his stability? His sanity?

Tiger Woods also sacrificed his childhood. Malcolm Gladwell wrote in his famed book “Outliers” that it takes 10,000 hours of practice to master one’s craft, which usually comes sometime around your mid thirties. By all accounts, Woods likely had those 10,000 hours in before he had a driver’s license.

Michael Jordan’s fuel comes from a persistent need to disprove people, from unfathomable grudges. Did he sacrifice his reputation? His likability? After years of arrogance, he affirmed the belief with his NBA Hall of Fame acceptance speech “crediting” his success to all those who “doubted” him.

There’s countless examples that make you wonder exactly what it is a great player sacrificed to become who they are. Would Jordan be the greatest without the angst raging inside of him there to fuel him? If Woods hadn’t grown up with such an intense resolve, personality and competitiveness, would he be the short-tempered champion he is today? Would Larry Bird go down as one of the purest shooters to hit the hardwood if he had friends like any normal kid?


 Sadly in today’s sport’s world not only is everything scoured by the media, but also scandal selling a hell of a lot more papers than good news. But the phenomenon is nothing new.

Corruption in sports has been around much longer than me, and much longer than my parents. And their parents, and their parents’ parents. It’s the same with unpleasant secrets and details about our beloved athletes and the sacrifices they made. Even Joe DiMaggio discreetly smoked his cigarettes in the dugout to keep kids from seeing him. These days, he couldn’t buy a pack of cigarettes without being hounded by cameras.

So remember, in this generation, one that seems riddled with scandals that bring down the greats, try to remember we’re not in a dark age of sports. We’re living in what I like the call the “Dark Knight” days of sports, and the coach’s office is Gotham City. Perpetrators of corruption in scandal in sports are taking notice and thinking twice.

Remember, you can’t put every great athlete’s sacrifice down on a spreadsheet. You may not like it, but some players may have sacrificed a value you hold dear in order to become who they are, whether intentional or not. Being great comes at an incredible cost, and it isn’t always pleasant or likable. Be careful of who your “role model” is because as we’re seeing in recent years, less and less athletes are as worthy to be role models as we once thought.

Remember, it’s not our generation of athletes, it’s our generation of awareness. Some would rather not know what their favorite athlete is really like; for times more like that of Babe Ruth and Joe DiMaggio. Remember these athletes have made great sacrifices to become the champion that you and I are not.


If you have any interest in Michael Jordan, and I mean any, do yourself a favor and read the Sport’s Illustrated article linked above. It’s a beautifully written piece about the coach that according to Jordan “cut him” and underestimated him. It’s a prime example of why I personally try to be strictly a fan of the player not the person.

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Update for the die-hards.

May 3, 2010 Leave a comment

Taking a break from studying I just wanted to share a couple of things about this long running (8 month) blog.  8 months!? wow.  almost 75%  of the posts happened in the 1st 5 months.

This whole blog will be taking a change of pace in the following months.  We’re not breaking up like the Backstreet Boys, we’re re branding like Hansen.

I (T.O) will be having a new blog starting within the week.  Yes.  Let me explain, courtesy of my new blog’s ‘About’ Section, Modern Man’s Hustle.

This website on the world wide web is going to be version 2.0 of my previous site.  My first one, The Important Things, was originally for me to vent about what bothers me.  I really enjoyed it for the first couple months, when there was no pressure on it.  I LOVED people telling me how they love it and check on it daily.  Making sure people are enjoying what I say/write is priority #1. All that praise made me want to put more up for the people.  It eventually almost turned into a job, trying to post constant stuff on there.  It opened up blogging, however, to Grant and Wes, my partners in crime (and life). Their contributions made it ‘hella tight’ (urban slang), with husker football and movie news. As time goes on, we have found some niches. Grant in the fall will start his own Husker site (or so that’s the plan).  If you haven’t been able to tell from Grant’s writings he is a die-hard Husker fan and can write about it until the proverbial cows come home.  Wes now has a summer job at the Daily Nebraskan, where he doesn’t know what he’s going to do. Being a critic about everything, he will find something there for sure.

We (all of us) will still post videos or random stuff/husker notes on The Important Things randomly throughout the summer Grant stilll has LOADS of stuff to talk about before we start playing football, and there are plenty of videos to show you guys. Especially now that school will be taking a 3 month hiatus.

This new blog will essentially cover two parts: it will cover my summer internship/travels to the Vail, CO area and be a place to post music.  The first part: my job.  This summer I was given the opportunity to work at a golf course in Wolcott, CO.  This 3 month experience will be incredible, not only because it is part of what I want to do, but I am in beautiful CO (sans the CU Buffs).  I am going to bring my camera, and I may even be purchasing a video-camera and record some stuff.  That’s a maybe, though.  The second part is music.  We all encounter it daily, with those white buds in everyones ears.  With the internet, Pandora, and numerous other sites allowing me to scour music, I’ve always though it would be nice to put it in an area, allowing others to look.  Thus, this.  My music tastes are same but different from everyone else.  Growing up listening to country, transition to Radio Disney, then modern hits, now hip-hop/almost underground.  Wiiide area to cover.  My ideal transition from this would be digging for old vinyl and being able to do a little production/mixing.  That’s looking ahead.

So what I want you to do
1)keep coming back here weekly, if not sooner.
2)bookmark my new site and expect some stuff to come up no later than next monday.
3)keep giving us support, whether it be word of mouth, comments, or checking out the site.
4)Have a good summer!

Tiger’s Gonna Lay With You, Or On You. Maybe Next To You.

March 19, 2010 Leave a comment

I can’t tell you much that picture above tickle’s my funny bone. One of Tiger’s sex buddies just released many of the texts from Tiger and the link below has a good amount of them. They are very dirty, so don’t read them around your grandparents (If you do, good luck explaining what an “ATM” is). The old people tend to look down upon vulgar language.


March 15, 2010 Leave a comment

Well, I was going to post a picture of Peter Graves, who you may know as the pilot in the 1980 film Airplane!, but this blog is acting like my ex-wife. JUST COOPERATE AND SIGN THE PAPERS BECKY! Anyway, Mr. Graves passed away yesterday, just 4 days before his 84th birthday. Now, I am a man who believes that no birthday should go uncelebrated. On St. Patrick’s Day, I will drinking myself stupid because I’m sure it is what Peter would have done. As I mourn through drink that day, I will also be celebrating our head blogger T.O.’s birthday, which is today! HAPPY BIRTHDAY TAYLOR! He is out of town on business but will be back on Wednesday to celebrate and mourn with the rest of us. *lightbulb overhead* Wow! I just had a great idea! A Peter Graves themed St. Patrick’s Day Extravaganza! Be there!

Why I think Facebook will fail in the next couple years.

January 12, 2010 Leave a comment

Last week the creator of Facebook, Mark Zukerberg said some interesting things at an award ceremony. From Computer World –

Computerworld – Facebook CEO Mark Zuckerberg’s contention last week that privacy is becoming less important to online users caused a stir across the Internet and among privacy advocates.

Zuckerberg told an audience at the 2009 Crunchies Awards ceremonies in San Francisco on Friday that social norms are changing and people don’t expect or want nearly as much privacy as they have in the past.

“When we got started, the question people asked was, ‘Why would I want to put any information on the Internet?’,” he said during the presentation of awards to top online startups and makers of innovative technology.

“In the last five or six years, blogging has taken off in a huge way. People have really gotten comfortable sharing more information and different kinds but more openly and with more people,” Zuckerberg added.

Zuckerberg went on to say that Facebook has been changing its privacy structure to conform to users’ changing preferences. “We view it as our role in the system to constantly be innovating and updating our system to reflect what the current social norms are,” he said.

The blogosphere and industry pundits today were lit up with stories about criticizing Zuckerberg’s statements on online privacy.

Facebook contends Zuckerberg’s statements were blown out of proportion and were “mischaracterized” and “sensationalized” by some pundits.

“He observed that social norms on the Internet are changing and that Facebook is responding, including by offering people more and better tools to decide what to share and with whom,” wrote a Facebook spokesperson in an e-mail to Computerworld. “Clearly, people are sharing much more information far more broadly than ever before through blogs, comments on stories, Facebook, Twitter and many other services. A core part of Facebook’s mission has always been to deliver the tools that empower people with control over their information.”

Kevin Bankston, a senior staff attorney with the Electronic Frontier Foundation, told Computerworld that he was surprised and concerned about Zuckerberg’s statements, especially since Facebook itself has been helping to erode the sense of privacy of its users.

“I think it’s rather disingenuous [to talk about how social norms are changing] rather than take responsibility for how Facebook’s actions shape social norms,” said Bankston. “Facebook is pushing those social norms in a direction more profitable for Facebook.”

Bankston contends that Facebook’s latest privacy policy in fact opens user information to more prying eyes. The social network, which has more than 350 million users, has removed controls on information deemed public, like user names, their city of residence, profile pictures, fan pages and friend lists, according to Bankston.

“Sooner or Later, it all comes crashing down.” – N.E.R.D

Hmm…… Reasons to make everything public for Facebook’s sake:
1) Increase revenue. The more user websites that can be visited, the more money Facebook can make.
2) Keep up with every other website. Twitter, blogs, etc. have become more public, giving out information like free samples.

In all honesty, if Facebook keeps changing the public/private options in an attempt to be more in-style and revenue-rich, which it sounds like they will, more and more people will find other places to use social networking. You can’t just tell 350 million people that the privacy of Facebook is “sooo 2009”. The internet already feels like it is Big Brother with all the information you can find by search engines. Plus, everything comes and goes in phases. First xanga, then Myspace, now Facebook… there is bound to be some new social network site out there that will be more user-friendly than the aforementioned.

Now you can Dislike Stuff on Facebook!

November 5, 2009 Leave a comment


We all have friends that post inane or annoying comments, photos, or videos on Facebook. Sure, we can hide their content, but more and more Facebookers are looking for a dislike option to visually show their disapproval.

Some Threadsy members can dislike Facebook items from within that dashboard, but we’ve found something even better suited to displaying your dislike: the Facebook Dislike Firefox plugin.

After you install the experimental plugin, you’ll notice that every item in your Facebook News Feed has an easily accessible “Dislike” option sandwiched in between the “Like” and “Similar Posts” options. Once you indicate your less than favorable reaction, a thumbs down icon will appear under the post that ostentatiously calls out your dislike, with your name attached, for your Facebook friends to see (with the major caveat that they also need to have the plugin installed).


The plugin works as promised, and from within the Facebook site, which makes it a more desirable option than Threadsy’s solution to. We think it’s a tad harsh, but when there’s demand, there’s typically a developer happy to build a solution. We just hope you use the dislike button with caution, otherwise you might find yourself with fewer Facebook friends.

YAY! Pretty soon we won’t even have to talk to our friends IN PERSON, we can show all of our emotions by clicking on buttons!


November 4, 2009 Leave a comment
Groovy Idea

Nice one!

One of history’s modern marvels, the Laptop Steering Wheel Desk has revolutionized driving.  Imagine a few scenarios:

Aw man! You’re late for work and you know you can’t make it through the day without a hearty breakfast. Well, WORRY NO MORE! With this incredible new product, you can eat as you please! Just place 3 course meal directly in front of you and hit cruise control, baby!

drawin and drvin

Gotta draw while you drive? Me too.

Do you enjoy writing screenplays and drawing detailed sketches of Mexican Mr. T riding bearsharktopus’s but have no room to draw whilst at the wheel?


This is my masterpiece. I drew this one on the way to my grandma's funeral. She would have loved it.


NEVER AGAIN! With your new Laptop Steering Wheel Desk, your imagination runs free!  Feel free to daydream and drive like there’s no tomorrow!

Whether your a Sunday driver of a NASCAR racer, this is the item for you!

(I hope whoever made this isn’t creating anything anymore. If for some reason you would like to purchase this, here’s the link.)